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Mint Condition to Childhood Trauma
We all start out in mint condition, and some of us may have manufacturing defects, but childhood trauma is a game changer.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 1, 20234 min read


Mental Health & the Brain
Happy Mental Health Awareness Month! My name is Carissa Weber and you can find more about my blog here . For the last 10 years, I have worked as a licensed professional counselor (LPC) and a clinical substance abuse counselor (CSAC). I have always been drawn to mental health, especially ways to help us feel better. While I was in college, I studied nursing and how the brain works. This absolutely fascinated me. Ever since, I have been interested as to why our brain works, an

Carissa Weber, MA, LPC, CSAC
May 6, 20236 min read


Book Resource List
This list is recommended by a Licensed Therapist, and is designed to be an every growing and changing suggestion. If you have books that hav

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Oct 1, 202223 min read


How to Know When You Need Counseling
How do people really know when they need counseling?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
May 14, 20222 min read


The Meaning of Priority
Psst... did you have strengths you want to build but have literally no clue where to start?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Apr 15, 20222 min read


Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
What Does Narcissism actually mean Narcissism. It’s a word that gets thrown around. “I have an ex that is a narcissist.” You hear it all...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Dec 13, 20217 min read


Suicidal Ideation & Attempts
If you are in crisis, call the toll-free National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (NSPL) at 1-800-273-TALK (8255) , available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The service is available to anyone. All calls are confidential. Suicide is a scary topic for many people. One most people refuse to touch. I will admit, it’s scary for me, too. You never know how words on a blog post, or written down, or sent in a text will be taken by the party reading. You never know who you will upset, or

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Nov 10, 202110 min read


Reading/Book List for Coping Skills
This reading list is recommended by a Licensed counselor and is designed to be an ever-growing and changing suggestion. If you have books...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 31, 20217 min read


Reading/Book List for Change
A Reading List regarding Change created by a Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 6, 20216 min read


The Nitty Gritty of Self-Maintenance
Self-care day is July 24th. Now, I’m not here to talk about the self-care you’ve been fed by marketing ploys of beauty companies.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 29, 202115 min read


Are U Ok? - Book Review
Katie Morton answers a lot of questions around seeing a counselor in her book Are U Ok?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jun 15, 20213 min read


What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD)
One of the most difficult disorders for people to understand (and break that cycle of hurt) is Borderline Personality Disorder. Borderline P

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
May 18, 20218 min read


Do Weighted Blankets Work?
Is a weighted blanket right for you? What are other options? How do they work? How do you pick one? ~Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Apr 20, 20213 min read


The Stone Boys - Book Review
Official Villain Esteem Book Review for The Stone Boys by Michael Gurian.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Feb 9, 20215 min read


I Wish I Could Just be OK Again
One of the worst feelings to experience is being so close to being steadily okay, and then just having that feeling ripped away from you.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Oct 8, 202011 min read


Mama Said You Gotta Shop Around
Have you wondered how to find a good counselor? For some odd reason, it’s a really weird concept for people to shop around for therapists.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Aug 31, 20204 min read


Are They Hurting Themselves?
I remember the first time I figured out one of my kids was self-harming.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 17, 20208 min read


What is Villain Esteem?
A place for the misunderstood, the ones who want to break societal standards, the people who can't find what they need in the self-help sect

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 7, 20202 min read


I Want to Change, But I Don’t Want To Change
Being able to pursue and maintain behavioral changes can be quite the undertaking. So how exactly do people do it? How do people change thei

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Aug 2, 20205 min read








