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Mint Condition to Childhood Trauma
We all start out in mint condition, and some of us may have manufacturing defects, but childhood trauma is a game changer.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 1, 20234 min read


Gender Revolution
My first memory of gender was when my older sister got pregnant and my family threw her a gender reveal party. It was a party before the...

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 3, 20238 min read


Mid-summer check-in
We have officially used up half the year. It’s check in time. You probably read the post in January about New Year’s Resolutions and how it affects mental health. So, now it’s the time to get real with yourself. Where are you at, and where do you want to be? This isn’t to bash yourself. Don’t use this self-assessment to berate yourself for things you didn’t accomplish. Plans rarely go the way they’re supposed to. You’re probably in a different place than you planned, but th

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jul 13, 20213 min read


The Nitty Gritty of Self-Maintenance
Self-care day is July 24th. Now, I’m not here to talk about the self-care you’ve been fed by marketing ploys of beauty companies.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 29, 202115 min read


Big Bang Judgements
Okay, so real talk. I love The Big Bang Theory . It's one of the only sitcoms I can watch on repeat and never get sick of. I think it's because I can see myself in the characters so much. I've always just felt like a big nerd at heart during any point of my life. Naturally, this leads me to connect to most of the characters. I have a love for most things that aren’t “mainstream” and that tend to have a cult following. Sign me up for all comic books, Joss Wheadon, sci-fi, horr

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jun 1, 20218 min read


Interested in Writing for Mental Health?
Who are we? Villain Esteem is a mental health service dedicated to creating a world that promotes resilience and empowerment of individuals by helping establish a more inviting, relatable informational platform that increases accessibility for all people. Informed by science, inspired by the anguish of humanity, and motivated by empathy to break the stigma of mental health. What are we aiming for? Our aim is to make mental health actually cool. Not Forever-21 cool, more alon

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
May 11, 20216 min read


Depressed and Unmotivated?
Depression can be a bitch. She can convince you to stay in bed and do nothing, and tell you lies like “You’re worthless, why even try?”

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
May 5, 20217 min read


How Do You Calm a Panic Attack?
LMHC suggested coping skills. I don’t know about you, but I personally can’t get my zen on in the middle of feeling like I’m dying.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Apr 9, 20218 min read


What is Villain Esteem?
A place for the misunderstood, the ones who want to break societal standards, the people who can't find what they need in the self-help sect

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 7, 20202 min read








