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Disability Rights to Inclusion, Beyond Legislature
How the International Disability Rights Movement failed, and what you can do about it.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Dec 2, 20237 min read


Mint Condition to Childhood Trauma
We all start out in mint condition, and some of us may have manufacturing defects, but childhood trauma is a game changer.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 1, 20234 min read


Gender Revolution
My first memory of gender was when my older sister got pregnant and my family threw her a gender reveal party. It was a party before the...

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 3, 20238 min read


Book Resource List
This list is recommended by a Licensed Therapist, and is designed to be an every growing and changing suggestion. If you have books that hav

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Oct 1, 202223 min read


How to Know When You Need Counseling
How do people really know when they need counseling?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
May 14, 20222 min read


The Meaning of Priority
Psst... did you have strengths you want to build but have literally no clue where to start?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Apr 15, 20222 min read


Reading/Book List for Depression
This reading list is recommended by a Licensed counselor and is designed to be an ever-growing and changing suggestion.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Aug 20, 20219 min read


Gender Equality
International Women's day is on March 8th.. As a cis-gender woman, I would like to extend this to all oppressed genders. While I do see the importance of individualized awareness days, this one I am comfortable sharing with anyone who has been oppressed by their assigned gender, gender identity, gender expression, or gender fluidity. I do believe women should be equal to men, but I don’t believe there are only two options for genders , and that equality should be extended to

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 17, 202110 min read


Reading/Book List for Coping Skills
This reading list is recommended by a Licensed counselor and is designed to be an ever-growing and changing suggestion. If you have books...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 31, 20217 min read


Can cooking be a coping skill?
***Trigger Warning*** *For those with a healthy relationship with food. If you struggle with eating disorders please consult your individual counselor or therapist for advice before proceeding with this post. Now, if you kept reading, I'm assuming you're making the best decision for you. There was a time when cooking caused more anxiety for me than it was worth. I will never forget the time I was at my Grandma's house and my spouse was talking about my horrible cooking. Mind

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 27, 20218 min read


Mid-summer check-in
We have officially used up half the year. It’s check in time. You probably read the post in January about New Year’s Resolutions and how it affects mental health. So, now it’s the time to get real with yourself. Where are you at, and where do you want to be? This isn’t to bash yourself. Don’t use this self-assessment to berate yourself for things you didn’t accomplish. Plans rarely go the way they’re supposed to. You’re probably in a different place than you planned, but th

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jul 13, 20213 min read


The Nitty Gritty of Self-Maintenance
Self-care day is July 24th. Now, I’m not here to talk about the self-care you’ve been fed by marketing ploys of beauty companies.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 29, 202115 min read


Big Bang Judgements
Okay, so real talk. I love The Big Bang Theory . It's one of the only sitcoms I can watch on repeat and never get sick of. I think it's because I can see myself in the characters so much. I've always just felt like a big nerd at heart during any point of my life. Naturally, this leads me to connect to most of the characters. I have a love for most things that aren’t “mainstream” and that tend to have a cult following. Sign me up for all comic books, Joss Wheadon, sci-fi, horr

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jun 1, 20218 min read


What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (BPD)
One of the most difficult disorders for people to understand (and break that cycle of hurt) is Borderline Personality Disorder. Borderline P

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
May 18, 20218 min read


Do Weighted Blankets Work?
Is a weighted blanket right for you? What are other options? How do they work? How do you pick one? ~Licensed Mental Health Counselor

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Apr 20, 20213 min read


Antidepressant Side Effect Experience of a Licensed Mental Health Counselor
I recently wrote a blog post on my decision to take antidepressants. What I didn’t put in that post was some of the negative outcomes.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jan 4, 202113 min read


Book/Resource Review Policy
Our goal is to find books that will fit into our Mental Health Book Club and help some authors along the way.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Dec 29, 20203 min read


Why is Gratitude Harder During the Pandemic?
How can you make Thanksgiving count when you can’t even be near people?

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Nov 21, 20206 min read


The Worry Tree - Villain Esteem Style
The traditional counseling "Worry Tree" redone with a Villain Esteem flair. (dark)

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 27, 20201 min read


Sorry I Didn't Text You Back, I have Anxiety
Anxiety is an invisible monster most people don’t understand. Some people don’t even believe in it. I view it like Bigfoot or Slenderman.

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 24, 202010 min read








