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Does ADHD Make College Harder?
If you struggle with ADHD and are considering college, read this article from a Certified Strategic Life Coach about how to prepare for uni

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Nov 4, 20237 min read
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ADHD Manifestations in Adults
Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD) is one of the most common neurodevelopmental disorders. While in the past it was a disorder th

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Oct 7, 20239 min read
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Patriarchy: The Crippling Affect Gender Roles Take on Society
There are many people within our society who are genuinely ignorant about how patriarchy is at the core of the oppression of gender, race, and class. While many Americans believe oppression ended with womenâs suffrage in 1919, and civil rights movements in 1954, closer examination evidences the patriarchyâs system of power, which established concepts of the âopposite sexâ and âothersâ, still oppresses many minorities in contemporary society. In honor of Women's Equality Day,

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 5, 20239 min read
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Reading/Book List for ADHD
A reading list for ADHD. Put together by a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. This is a great resource for anyone who doesn't have access t

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 15, 20239 min read
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Gender Revolution
My first memory of gender was when my older sister got pregnant and my family threw her a gender reveal party. It was a party before the...

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jun 3, 20238 min read
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How New Years Resolutions Affect Mental Health
December and January are all about goals and resolutions, but I honestly donât believe in all that. I donât understand why people wait all year to set a goal they wonât even work towards. Theyâre only setting it because they were peer pressured into it. This probably all started in the Industrial Revolution. Some pencil-pusher boss probably pressured some carpet-walker manager into telling him what he was going to accomplish for a year. That being said, I LOVE goals. I rememb

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Dec 29, 202210 min read
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Reading/Book List for Autism
A reading list for Autism. Put together by a Licensed Mental Health Counselor.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Dec 13, 202210 min read
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How to Deal with Holiday Despair
The time thatâs supposed to be joyous and full of family time, makes you want to cover your ears until MLK day.

Iris Findley
Nov 8, 20226 min read
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Coping with Anxiety About MonkeyPox
Weâve had quite a bit going on in the past couple of years to make us more fearful of catching infectious diseases. I think COVID has...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Nov 1, 20225 min read
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Book Resource List
This list is recommended by a Licensed Therapist, and is designed to be an every growing and changing suggestion. If you have books that hav

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Oct 1, 202223 min read
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How to Know When You Need Counseling
How do people really know when they need counseling?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
May 14, 20222 min read
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The Meaning of Priority
Psst... did you have strengths you want to build but have literally no clue where to start?

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Apr 15, 20222 min read
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The Real-Life Chills of Oppressive Culture
In honor of Black History Month (i.e., February), I decided it would be a great time to write about a recently released show that was grotesque in the ways that truly keep me up at night. Normally, the scary stuff that gets under my skin, is what I know actually happened, could actually, or is currently happening. The show Iâm referring to is an Amazon Prime series called Them. If you havenât watched it, I strongly recommend you set aside some time to binge-watch (assuming ho

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Feb 18, 202215 min read
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How to Make Friends in Adulthood
Be Ok being alone Have you ever met someone that reeked of desperation? Ever wonder what they did to get like that? Well, itâs pretty simple, really. They had an idea in their head about how things should go. They wanted a friend, or even something more. They had a plan of what they were going to do to get what they wanted. Whoever came within spitting distance would work if theyâre willing to go along with the plan. Usually when in the middle of a vicious cycle like this, t

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jan 28, 202213 min read
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)
What Does Narcissism actually mean Narcissism. Itâs a word that gets thrown around. âI have an ex that is a narcissist.â You hear it all...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Dec 13, 20217 min read
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Reading/Book List for Depression
This reading list is recommended by a Licensed counselor and is designed to be an ever-growing and changing suggestion.

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Aug 20, 20219 min read
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Gender Equality
International Women's day is on March 8th.. As a cis-gender woman, I would like to extend this to all oppressed genders. While I do see the importance of individualized awareness days, this one I am comfortable sharing with anyone who has been oppressed by their assigned gender, gender identity, gender expression, or gender fluidity. I do believe women should be equal to men, but I donât believe there are only two options for genders , and that equality should be extended to

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Aug 17, 202110 min read
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Reading/Book List for Coping Skills
This reading list is recommended by a Licensed counselor and is designed to be an ever-growing and changing suggestion. If you have books...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 31, 20217 min read
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Reading/Book List For Insomnia
Ways to Read DIgitally: Libby: App by Overdrive - Requires a Library Card Book Bub - Lists of free or on-sale books through Kindle and...

Michela Dalsing MS, LMHC, LCPC
Jul 16, 20216 min read
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Mid-summer check-in
We have officially used up half the year. Itâs check in time. You probably read the post in January about New Yearâs Resolutions and how it affects mental health. So, now itâs the time to get real with yourself. Where are you at, and where do you want to be? This isnât to bash yourself. Donât use this self-assessment to berate yourself for things you didnât accomplish. Plans rarely go the way theyâre supposed to. Youâre probably in a different place than you planned, but th

Ximena Alyssa Herriges-Dalsing
Jul 13, 20213 min read
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